What do women want?

Every woman desires a special man. A wealthy man, a successful man, a famous man, an interesting man, a talented man, a loving man, a man she loves, a father for her children, a friend, a sex-machine. Moreover, a woman may expect different things from her man as she gets older. Read more to find out what a woman wants…

A girl of 22, wants a prince on a white horse.

A girl may claim she is realistic and does not look on the world through the pink glasses, but she will never confess dreaming of an ideal man. He has got to be handsome, charming, popular. He has got to be rich – probably not so rich, but always in funds. Of course, he has got to be generous enough to spend money on her.

He has got to be smart, brilliantly smart– for some girls it is even more important than being handsome, but of course his mind is never more important than his purse. He has got to have a great sense of humor, to be athletic, stylish, romantic and a good listener, tender lover and… well, the list of his qualities can go on and on. A girl wants a man to adore her and to make her feel like a the goddess, shower her with flowers, gifts and promises of eternal love.

A woman of 32 just wants a good man.

She has finally taken off those pink glasses and got rid of romantic fantasies. So her good man need not be a hero –  though it would not hurt if he is good-looking, has good manners, a well-paid job, a good car, a good house, and a good sum of money on a credit card. 

Also he carries bags from supermarket, likes her home-cooked dinners, laughs at her jokes, remembers the most important dates – like her mom’s birthday.

A woman of 42 just wants a man.

That ordinary kind of man is not a movie star, he even has a belly instead of muscles– good if the shirt covers it all; sometimes a head lacking hair, but still iis not too disgusting. He shaves by the weekends, is still “athletic” enough to do some housework, remembers where to laugh in the jokes, nods to show he is listening, takes her out once a month, drives her to the supermarket and back, does not set the car in motion until all  parts of body are in.

A woman of 52 wants – well she just lives with that man.

It is really nice if he remembers her name, shaves during weekends, sometimes gets a haircut, changes underwear and socks regularly, borrows money not too often, tries to behave himself in public.

It is great if he also finds the strength to leave the couch on some weekends, notices delicious dinner while watching TV, does not always fall asleep while listening to a person.

A woman of 62 wants a man who will not disturb her too often.

She is a lucky one, if he is not too scary to make his own grandchildren cry, if he still remembers where the bathroom is, where his teeth are, what month it is, who this woman is, what he is laughing at, and etc.

A woman will appreciate his ability to get up, dress properly without much help from her side. The tbest part is if there are some places in the house, where his snores do not reach.

Do you have it in you to be a great Girlfriend?

Are you really the right woman for him? Men disclose all by confiding, read more to find out what men want from their women, 10 mantras for being a superb girlfriend, and enjoying a rocking relationship.
 

You make him want to be a better man
Any man who has a great girlfriend or wife will tell her that she makes him want to be a better man. She does not have to say or do anything; it just is that way. If he suddenly feels bad about how he treated her sister or finds himself trying to get his finances in order, he might want to think about his motivation for doing so. It could be love.

Your love for Him
If he has found a woman who loves him for who he really is and not who he pretends or try to be sometimes, he will definitely hang on to her. A woman who does not try to change him is hard to find. Of course, everyone has their slightly annoying habits that their mate has to contend with, but if she really loves him, she will be able to cope with these.

You get along with his friends and family
A great girlfriend will not only help his mum in the kitchen, listen to his dad’s stories and hang out with his friends, but she will enjoy it. She will make a real effort to get to know and love the most important people in his life. And she will not try to get him to ditch his best buds. She will actually empathise with his brother being dumped and suggest that they take him out to cheer him up. Not only that, but his friends will not roll their eyes and moan when he mentions that she will be joining them when she gets off work (yes, women like this do exist).

No nagging Puh-leez!
There is nothing worse than a nag! A great girlfriend knows this and chooses her battles wisely. She knows when to speak up and when to let it slide. He does not want a girlfriend who will give him hell for leaving a couple of dishes in the sink occasionally.

You let him be a man
A man does not like to get involved with a woman who tries to get him to eat cottage cheese and fruit for breakfast and insists that he give up his poker night with the lads. He will end up resenting her more than he can imagine. A good girlfriend lets him be a bloke in all his glory, poker night and all. If she is a great girlfriend, she will even bring him and his mates a couple of beers and make them some of her famous sandwiches. 

Room for Respect
This is a biggie. His woman must respect him. This means that she listens to him, even if she does not necessarily agree with what he is saying. And, of course, she never tries to demean or belittle him in any way, shape or form. A great girlfriend won’t ever cause scenes in public or in front of his friends and family, and will always wait to discuss matters with him in private. If she respects him, chances are that she will behave in a tactful and diplomatic manner in most situations, which is definitely a good thing.

Beauty lies in the eyes of the Beholder
I know, this one is kind of obvious, but important nonetheless. A great girlfriend will not only want to look good for him, but also for herself. She should always look her best and be well put together – matching lingerie is a definite plus. He has to be proud to have her on his arm and enjoy the sight of her in any light. And this doesn’t mean that she has to be a Paris Hilton clone. Remember that beauty is in the eye of the beholder, so if he thinks her full bottom or uncontrollable curls are beautiful, he is allowed.

Compatibility…where it matters..!!
A great girlfriend has to be sexually compatible with him. Of course, this does not imply that she has to know all the right moves straight away; it simply means that he and she have an undeniable attraction towards each other, and are able to communicate their desires verbally (or with physical cues). It is important that they please each other in the bedroom, or on top of the dryer whatever the case may be.

Bimbo’s to be Avoided
Everyone knows that the bimbo routine gets really old, really fast. Instead of being the one in total control, he will find himself trying to figure out what she’s really thinking behind those glazed eyes of hers – or if she’s actually thinking at all. An intelligent woman will constantly surprise him and keep him on his toes. She will not let him get bored of her. Besides, it is nice to have something to talk about between all that chandelier-hanging sex.

Independent Woman
No one wants a girlfriend they have to baby-sit. Once in a while, like if she’s had a rough day at work, it’s great to be her shoulder to cry on, but if she cannot seem to function without him and is constantly after him, she will eventually make him feel like he is suffocating, which is a surefire way to get him running out the nearest exit. On the other hand, if she has her very own personality and opinions, can stand on her own two feet, both financially and emotionally, and is able to enjoy time away from him – while still missing him, of course – then she must be a great girlfriend.

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